Week four post

I took a lot from the last class. I really enjoyed working with Will on leading. He was extremely helpful and patient. The discussion was very rich that class. It was very interesting listening to the women in our class share their opinions about the strong gender roles that exist in Tango. I feel very conflicted with the gender roles, it is hard for me to morally accept them sometimes. Listening to some of the comments in class helped me understand that it is not always an oppressive action, it can also be a moment of trust, and even empowerment. I find my self struggling with some of the steps like the Milanga squares and the eight count, just because i have a hard time remembering the steps before getting home. I find myself trying to practice at home and making up a complete new step. I really enjoyed the end of class Milanga session! Even though most of us in class know each other and it is a different experience to actually go out into the city and experience a Milanga, it was great practice. The experience of actually asking someone to dance is difficult for me. I am very shy when it comes to asking and its something I need to work on. I also need to improve my eye contact, yet i wonder if this is even necessary since a closer embrace may prevent eye contact, or make it difficult for the leader to keep an eye on the rest of the dance floor?